HOW DO I DECIDE WHEN IT'S TIME?

The decision to put your pet to sleep is a difficult decision that only you can make. It's a deeply personal decision, but you don't have to make it alone. You can discuss it with your veterinarian and involve the other members of your family. When making this decision, here are some points to consider:

What is the animal's quality of life? This is one of the major considerations in making the choice to euthanize a pet. It's hard to decide to put an animal to sleep, but it's even more difficult to watch the animal suffer. Often, we are reluctant to let go of a beloved friend, but it's important to view the situation objectively and decide what's best for the animal. If the bad times and the pain are more frequent than the good times for your pet, euthanasia may be the best choice.

What are your financial means? Sometimes devastating illnesses, such as cancer, will incur high financial (and emotional) costs if you decide to go ahead with treatment. If the required treatment is beyond your means, or if the possibility of success is small, euthanasia may be a valid option. When faced with this situation, have a frank discussion with your veterinarian regarding treatment options for your pet, costs, and likely outcomes. When you are fully informed, you will be able to make the decision that is right for you.

WILL MY PET FEEL ANY PAIN?

Euthanasia is normally painless for the animal. It is usually done through injection of a lethal drug. The vet may give the animal a dose of tranquilizer first in order to relax it. Following the injection, your pet will become unconsciousness, and death will follow quickly and painlessly. Have an animal euthanized by a vet is a peaceful and humane way to end its suffering.

Some animals become very distressed when going to the vet's office. For this reason, some veterinarians will perform the euthanasia at your home. You may want to ask your vet if this is an option.

SHOULD I STAY WITH MY PET?

This is a deeply personal question that only you can answer. If it would be too distressing for you to stay with your pet, take some time to say your goodbyes beforehand. Otherwise, you will cause yourself even more emotional distress, and your pet may pick up on your feelings and become distressed, too.

However, for some people, being with their animal at the end is a way to bring about closure and to come to terms with a great loss. If you feel that you can handle being present, ask your veterinarian to allow you to stay. Most vets are happy to comply with this request. If you have a supportive family member or friend who will stay with you, take advantage of the additional comforting.

There is no right or wrong decision. Decide what feels most comfortable for you, and don't let anyone else talk you into doing something that you don't want to do.